When trying to Message someone, especially about an offer for a BST post. Make sure that you are sending a PM and not posting a "Visitor message" on the members "wall" where everyone can see it.
You can private message people by clicking on the little icon next to their name in a post.
Or you can go to their profile a sample of which is viewed below and click on PRIVATE MESSAGE.
If you do not click on Private Message and you simply type in the message box 2 things are going to happen. First it is likely going to need Mod approval before the member sees it. Second if they do see it, so will everyone else that goes to their profile.
If you don't want people to be able to post visitor messages on your profile you can turn that option off in your profile options.
You can private message people by clicking on the little icon next to their name in a post.
Or you can go to their profile a sample of which is viewed below and click on PRIVATE MESSAGE.
If you do not click on Private Message and you simply type in the message box 2 things are going to happen. First it is likely going to need Mod approval before the member sees it. Second if they do see it, so will everyone else that goes to their profile.
If you don't want people to be able to post visitor messages on your profile you can turn that option off in your profile options.